Author: Becks
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Treat Yo Self- You Deserve It
The importance of the term ‘treat yo self’ goes beyond the material purchase. Treating yourself is necessary and plays a huge role in self worth. By purchasing for you, or by splurging on a new experience, you are growing as an individual. Your independence goes up and so does your self worth. Take it from…
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It’s Still Cool to Hang Out with your Parents
As we grow older, we all reach a phase where our parents are no longer considered “cool” to hang out with.You counted down the days until you could go to the movies or the mall with your friends alone. Let’s face it, that Starbucks cup, Victorias Secret PINK shopping bag, and your bestie are…
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Thought to Combat Anxiety
My Nene once said to me, “Thoughts are things. You can fill your head with negative thoughts and take up space or you can fill your head with positive thoughts to take up space. Its your decision.” This saying of hers really stuck out to me and I will remember it forever. For those of…
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Importance of Going Outside on Nice Days
If you live in a climate that changes frequently, your mood can often change as well. Fortunately, I reside in a place where there are seasons and I am incredibly blessed and thankful that I do. The leaves change colors, the sun adjusts its strength, and the weather fluctuates rapidly. I love how I can…
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“A Candle Loses Nothing by Lighting Another Candle”
I am rooting for you. I wish you the best. Recently, I came across this quote “A Candle Loses Nothing by Lighting Another Candle,” and it really made an impact. I believe it needs to be shared more often. With the negative energy created by jealousy and social media in the world, this quote really…
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It’s Okay to Spend Time Alone
I was always very independent. I believe it had to do with being a competitive gymnast and my mother constantly telling me to “be your own girl.” I enjoyed spending time alone- I had a lot of hobbies and I was able to entertain myself. Do not get me wrong- I still spent time with…
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Surround Yourself With Positivity
You may have heard this saying, but I genuinely believe that your vibe really does reflect on your tribe. The energy you send into the world can make a great difference in the lives of those around you. If you bring positivity and good energy to the world, you will be connected with others who…
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3 Ways to Boost Your Resume in College
(From the Big Sister you never had) Throughout my college years, I often wished I had an older sibling to tell me what classes to take, how to get involved, or if I was making the right decisions. My college career did not consist of the typical Greek life party scene. Did I feel like…
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3 Pieces of Advice from the Big Sister You Never Had
Growing up, I believed life would be a lot easier if I had an older sibling. Someone who faced all of the challenges first. Someone who could kick a boys ass if he hurt my feelings or could tell me what everything was so I didn’t have to resort to my older friends or urban…
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The Journey Begins
Thanks for joining me! I finally did it! I am going for it! Let’s see where this blog will take us. Becsea is a lifestyle blog, geared towards females in their teens through early twenties. It features lifestyle posts including trendy topics and advice for the readers. With a “girl next door” feel, Becsea is…